What Makes You Feel Ill In a Relationship?
The relationship that reflects doubt or extreme calculation or having shades of mutual competition is an ill state of relationship- if not corrected the same transforms to a hate relationship.
Unfortunately in everyone’s life there are close characters whom you shared intimacy in thoughts and who over the period of time by their inbuilt negativities (thanks to their childhood and parenting) later expose their traits and reflect dark shades to a healthy relationship and becomes an object of hate and thus begins the most distressing process of parallel love and hate relationship.
Let me elucidate–
- Loving parents when become over protective and always interfere to the extent of suffocation generates the hate factor, yet the love exists. And so the process of illness takes shape and is timely cured by understanding the relationship flourishes otherwise transforms to an ill relationship.
- Also an obsessive and jealous spouse/ siblings and close friends- the excess is poison and the delicate dynamics of “live and let live” and “healthy spacing” are the two formulas that keep relationships healthy and away from illness.